Mondays will from now be “Meal Ideas Monday,” an opputunity for you to ask queries about food and meal plans or recipes and ideas.
Wednesdays will be “Workout Wednesday” - the focus being more on health, fitness and well being, rather than weight and being “skinny”. Ask me whatever you feel fits into this topic on this day!
From Saturday mornings to Sunday evenings, anon will be open for “Weekend Worries” where you can ask general queries or for advice about EDs, or more general advice, too.
Because I can imagine people will send questions on Monday, Wednesday and the weekend that are unrelated to that theme, the weekend will also be the time I answer any personal questions or general questions I get through out the week.
On those days, the anon will be open for 1~3 hours during the day for questions related to the theme (I will give a notice when it is opens) and I will answer in the evening. Bare in mind, I am on -GMT time.
Please, don’t be offended if I don’t answer you straight away.
Off anon, you can still ask for advice and I will either publish it or answer privately depending on your preference.
The reason for this change is because I have been overwhelmed with the number of asks I am getting and it put my own recovery on the line.
As much as I want to help you all, and save others from this terrible disease, I feel I was being used as a service and I was so stressed out. I think people forget I am a person with feelings and I too am in recovery. I’m not just a robot typing out answers behind a screen.
You can see from the image how many asks I got in relation to personal posts in the last week, and that’s not even all of them highlighted as tumblr wouldn’t let me! I don’t want my blog to lose it’s personal touch that it began with.
This has been a very big decision for me to make, probably bigger than you think, but I hope you respect my choice.